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Diet Is As Diet Does!!!

A Standard disclaimer so everyone understands that this may not be for everyone: Please remember before you start any diet and/or exercise regimen that you consult with your physician or chiropractor. They can help you find the best plan that works for you and with you!

Okay, so the diet crazies have begun???? I think not! I have been fighting with myself for 5 years trying to maintain what I think is a healthy weight! I've always got some doctor trying to tell me that my BMI indicates that I am borderline obese. Seriously????? I'm sorry, but if I were truly at that stage, I don't believe I'd be able to walk 3 miles in 48 minutes without breaking a sweat!! The one thing you need to remember is that it is not the doctor's fault if your diet and exercise regimen fails!! It is all up to YOU!!!

So, what is a good way to decide if you really need to diet? One way to find out for yourself is to take the mirror test. Yup, I said mirror. You start by looking at your entire body in the mirror. What do you see? Does it make you smile? Does it make you frown? How does it make you feel? How do your clothes fit? Are they loose and baggy because you're trying to cover up something? Are they too snug or even tight? Use a notebook, recorder, whatever to note your response. Now that you've done all that, take your clothes off, down to your undies. Take another look in that mirror and note what you see and how it makes you feel !  Seeing yourself naked can be very disconcerting for some people!

I did all of these things last August at the request of the doctor I see for my diabetes. She asked me to notate everything and bring my discoveries to my next appointment. She told me that with the muscle mass I carry, the BMI is not an accurate measure of whether I'm overweight or not. She then proceeded to take my measurements. All of them. Bust, rib cage, waist, hips, around my butt, thigh, and upper arms (talk about embarrassing)!! Then, she removed from a drawer what looked like an ancient torture device (a skin fold caliper) and proceeded to take measurements at my waist, back of upper arm, front of upper arm and my shoulder blade. When she did her calculations I was no longer borderline obese, but moderately overweight (5'6" 189lbs).

We sat down and started talking diet and exercise. I gave her my food and exercise log which she read through and questioned occasionally for accuracy. She was even tickled pink that I had included my chocolate consumption and what desserts and how much! She said most people aren't that honest with themselves. I told her I was serious about losing some weight and increasing my energy levels, however I wanted to do it within the confines of my health issues as I did not want any of them flaring up and giving me trouble.

We sat down and started with the calorie calculator and my food index. We figured out that I could start every morning with a glass of water or 2 and then exercise. I was walking only 2-1/2 miles per day at that time and she suggested I bump it up to 3 miles and consider adding a half mile every 3 - 4 months. I also used an elliptical machine 4 times a week for 15 minutes and she suggested I increase my time to 1/2 hour sessions, twice a week.

Sunday - my choice of 3 mile walk or 1/2 hour elliptical

Monday - 3 mile walk

Tuesday - 3 mile walk

Wednesday - 1/2 hour elliptical

Thursday - 3 mile walk

Friday - 3 mile walk

Saturday - 1/2 hour elliptical

When I first began this routine, I felt everything almost immediately and I can say I HATED it, but I knew I needed to push or I wouldn't get any results worth diddly! I also learned that I can switch this up and change around the schedule as long as I get in 5 walks and 2 elliptical sessions per week. I also increased my water intake because that helps get more oxygen into the blood.

There are always days that I drag or throw myself out of bed and something hurts. There are days I get up feeling absolutely like QUEEN of the world and nothing can stop me. We are all like that!! The one thing that helps me is my exercise buddy. She knows when we're going to be walking and sits by the door waiting!

 

Okay, so I've covered my exercise routine. Now, let's get to the food part of the diet we worked out. We all know that we need to cut back fat, cut out bad carbohydrates and eat lean proteins, but what we always neglect in these processes is our brains. Our brains need to be fed, too. When you cut back everything, too fast and for too long, you can make your brain slow, and find yourself taking longer to do mental things. This is especially true for people who have debilitating illnesses and serious health conditions.

I used to consistantly follow the FDA's food pyramid thingy, but no more! We are not all robots that have the same exact dietary requirements. Getting a new diet takes a lot of planning and work, especially on my part. I had to continue to diary my food intake and how I felt throughout the day. We also took into consideration that I am not a breakfast person and it is on requisite that we all eat breakfast at the same time.

I typically drink 1 - 2 cups of coffee per day with cocoa and sugar. We changed the sugar to honey and decreased the amount. I'm also supposed to try to avoid commercial coffee vendors unless they offer natural flavorings and sweeteners. Going fat free can hurt us just as much as taking in too much fat. The commercial fat free alternatives typically are derived from chemicals that are not healthy for consumption, so it's better to just cut the fat. When I finally do eat 'breakfast' it is usually about 3 - 4 hours after my body is fully awake. I learned that it's not good for me to follow 'guidelines' and eat breakfast within an hour of waking up because it caused digestion issues. Not everyone's body is ready for food first thing in the morning. On that note, here's an example of my daily diet:

2 fruits (any you like - fresh or dried) - start with 1 fruit, eat another fruit 1-1/2 hrs later

2 grains (any you like, but make sure they're whole grains, not modified)

1/3 cup oatmeal with a slice of dry whole wheat toast

slice of dry whole grain oat bran toast with 1 tbsp peanut butter (this counts as 1/2 protein, too)

1/2 cup cooked brown rice with veggies or fruit

3 veggies (raw or cooked) - 1/2 cup at a time (1/2 cup is typically one serving) It doesn't matter when these are eaten.

1-1/2 proteins (typically 3 - 4 ounces of meat and 1 tbsp nut butter) Sometimes I have a cup of soup or a serving of casserole which incorporates some of the requirements. It all adds up when you write it down.

I may have dessert 2 times per week - Rule: 1 serving of dessert for me = 1/2 the normal serving

If 1 serving is equal to 3/4 cup, decrease to 1/3 cup; 2 ounces, decrease to 1 ounce; etc.

No calorie counting. No eating if you're not hungry. The only thing you skimp on is dessert. Since every person is different in their dietary requirements, food amounts are adjusted up or down according to weight and daily exercise.

Lastly, one of the most important things that are neglected in dieting and exercising is the importance of sleep!! Sleep is just as important as exercise, if not more so. The doctor told me to always shoot for 8 - 10 hours per night because when less than ideal medical conditions are present, the body must heal and rejuvinate. Nothing rejuvinates the human body as good as sleep does. You will not always get the sleep you're prescribed to get. My doctor told me, "DO NOT sleep in to catch up on sleep. This sabotages the body and is one of the causes of overeating. It's better to grab a nap than a snack!"

She referred me to this website about the myths and fallacies of so called dieting rules (http://www.webmd.com/diet/features/10-diet-rules-meant-to-be-broken). I needed this very much because I've had a tendency, in the past, to put too much stock in media outlets' dieting rules and such.

I know this is all working very well for me because I've been able to keep up with everything; my energy has more than doubled (which is something short of a miracle for someone with CFS) and I'm down to 172lbs!! I like what I'm seeing in the mirror a lot better. I am happy!!!

 

posted: 11/29/2011 01:57 PM. Where's yours??